Are you looking to perform an obsession love spell to make your significant other or even your ex obsessed with you?
Have you ever found yourself unable to shake thoughts of someone, feeling drawn to them in ways you can’t quite explain? As a spellcaster, I understand that longing—when you want to capture someone’s heart and mind, making them think of you just as much as you think of them.
The Obsession Love Spell is designed for people who want to establish a strong bond and start an irresistible, intense attraction. It’s about bringing your person closer by harmonizing their energies so they want to be close to you and need your presence, not controlling them.
This spell works on deep, emotional levels, stirring desire and fascination that feels almost magnetic. If you’re ready for a love that lingers, this spell can help you open the door to an unshakeable bond—one that leaves a lasting impression on both hearts.
What is an obsession love spell?
An Obsession Love Spell is designed to create an intense attraction and obsession between two people. Unlike traditional love spells, this one aims to stir deep emotions, making the target person consistently think about you and develop a strong, almost magnetic desire to be around you.
It increases interest and desire by drawing on the energies of attraction and emotional connection. This spell increases the likelihood that the person will become naturally and irresistibly attracted to you by fostering a strong emotional draw rather than forcing love.
Who does this obsession love spell for?
If you want to draw someone in and arouse intense feelings of attraction, this obsession love spell is for you. It establishes an emotional connection that keeps someone thinking about you all the time, whether you’re in a relationship or trying to win their heart. This spell has the power to energize the connection for people who are looking for an unquestionable, magnetic draw.
How to perform an obsession love spells for beginners.
To Perform an Obsession Love Spell requires focus, intent, and an understanding of energy for you as a beginner. So, let me walk you through the process and what you will need to start this journey.
What You Will Need To Have
- A red or pink candle (for love and attraction)
- A piece of paper and pen.
- A small, personal object belonging to the person (like a hair, a piece of clothing, or a photograph)
- A quiet, calm space where you won’t be disturbed
The process you need to take to perform this obsession love spell
Please follow the steps I’ve provided here, but feel free to add your own chants and other objects to make it more meaningful to you.
1. Make Your Space Ready
Before you do anything, it’s important to set the right mood. I always tell people to clear the space where they’ll be performing the spell, so there’s no lingering negative energy. This is something I do for every spell I cast—energy matters and a calm environment helps focus your intentions.
Burning incense or sage can purify the space, or you can simply spend a few minutes focusing while sitting in a quiet spot. Clear your head and take a few deep breaths. Take your time; hurrying is not the point. Your spell will be more effective if you are clear and concentrated.
Decide on Your Goals
This is one of the most crucial steps. When I cast spells, I always remind myself: your intention is the key. You need to be clear about what you want before you even start the process. Think about why you’re performing the spell—do you want to build a stronger connection with someone?
Do you want to make them think of you more often, or crave your presence? Be specific. You’re not just casting a spell for “love”; you’re creating a specific bond. So, sit down in your sacred space, take a few breaths, and focus on that person. Feel the emotions that you want them to feel towards you, imagine the magnetic pull between you two, and let those feelings build in your heart. When you feel that energy, you’re ready to move forward.
Write Your Desire
I always recommend writing down your clear goals, whether it’s a spell or a goal you are working toward. There is something about physically putting words on paper that makes your desires more concrete. On your piece of paper, write down the person’s name and a few clear words about what you want to manifest.
For example, you could write, “I want [name of that person] to think about me constantly and feel an irresistible desire to be with me.” It’s important to be direct, but also remember to keep it respectful and positive. This isn’t about forcing someone to love you; it’s about creating a deeper connection that makes them think of you with affection and longing. Once you’ve written it down, hold the paper close to you and focus on the words. Let that intention sink in deeply.
Light the Candle
Candles are often used in spells because fire represents transformation, passion, and energy. When I light a candle for a love spell, I always take a moment to appreciate the warmth and light it offers. In this case, a red or pink candle is ideal for attraction and love. As you light the candle, focus on the flame and imagine it as a symbol of your desire burning brightly.
Feel the energy you’ve put into your intention radiating from the candle, drawing the person’s attention to you. I like to picture the flame growing stronger as their feelings for you intensify. Let the candle’s flame represent the magnetic pull between you and them. It’s an act of sending out your intentions into the universe, allowing the energy to work its way toward manifesting your desires.
Focus on the Object
Holding a personal object—like a photograph, piece of clothing, or even a strand of hair—helps create a direct connection to the person you’re working on. This object becomes a physical representation of your spell, a way to direct your energy more specifically toward them.
When you hold it, focus deeply on your feelings toward that person and how you want them to feel about you. Picture them thinking of you constantly, feeling drawn to you in an almost magnetic way. You can even speak to the object, infusing it with your energy. As you focus, imagine their emotions becoming more intense. With each breath, you’re sending a bit more of that energy toward them.
Recite the Spell
Now it’s time to speak the words that will bring your desires to life. When reciting the spell, I always tell my clients to speak with confidence and clarity. Your words are powerful, and the energy behind them matters. You can use the simple chant I mentioned earlier, or create your own words based on your specific desire.
Here’s an example I like to use:
“With this flame, I call upon desire,
Let [name] feel my presence, burning like fire.
May they think of me, day and night,
Obsessed with love, with all their might.”
Concentrate on the things you wish to bring about as you chant. Imagine them becoming increasingly hooked on you, their allure becoming undeniable. As you say the words, feel the vibe in the room change and picture your relationship growing stronger. Have faith in your voice’s power and realize that every word you speak contributes to the manifestation of your desire.
Close the Spell
Once you have spoken the words and felt the energy settle, it’s time to close the spell. I like to leave the candle burning for at least 15 to 30 minutes, allowing the energy to continue building. As the candle burns, imagine the desire you’ve created growing stronger. When the time feels right, blow out the candle, symbolizing that your intent has been released into the universe. You’ve sent your energy out, and now the universe will work to manifest it in its own way.
Keep the object close to you for the next few days as a reminder of the spell and your intention. Let the energy work, and don’t obsess over the outcome. Trust that the universe is doing its part. If you ever feel the need to reinforce the spell, you can always repeat it later.
What if you don’t have a picture of a person you want to attract?
If you don’t have a picture of the person you want to attract, don’t worry—you can still perform the Obsession Love Spell with great success! There are plenty of ways to work with the energy of attraction without needing a photo.
Here are some alternatives I have used and recommended for clients.
Use Their Name
If you don’t have a physical object or picture, writing their name on a piece of paper can serve as a powerful stand-in. The name is a symbol of their energy, and by writing it down, you’re focusing your intention directly on them. You can write their full name or just their first name, and even repeat it several times while you meditate or cast your spell. The key is to focus on their energy as you write, imagining them thinking of you and desiring your presence. The written name will serve as a link between you and them.
Note.
Not having a picture doesn’t make the spell less effective. In fact, your intent, focus, and the energy you put into the spell are what truly matter. The key is to use something—whether it’s their name, a personal object, a symbol, or your own visualization—that helps you direct your energy and focus on your goal of drawing them closer. Magic is about connecting with the energy of what you want, and with practice, you’ll find that your ability to use these tools will only grow stronger.
Can obsession love spell backfire on me?
Yes, an Obsession Love Spell can potentially backfire—just like any spell, if it’s not performed with the right mindset, and intention. You need to be very careful if you are a beginner. If you need a professional spell caster I can help you.
Let me explain why it could go wrong and how you can avoid the pitfalls.
1. Disrespecting Free Will
One of the most crucial aspects of working with magic, especially love spells, is to never force someone to feel something they don’t naturally feel. While an Obsession Love Spell can enhance attraction, it can create unintended consequences if the person feels pressured. If you try to influence someone against their will, they might start feeling uncomfortable, trapped, or even repelled. This can lead to emotional pushback from them, even if you don’t intend for that to happen.
The best way to avoid this is to make sure your intentions are rooted in love and respect, and not in trying to control someone’s feelings. The goal should always be to attract and enhance the connection.
2. Obsession Turning Negative
The word “obsession” can have negative connotations, and if you are not careful, you might end up attracting more than you bargained for. Instead of cultivating genuine love and mutual affection, the spell could stir up feelings of possessiveness, jealousy, or even unhealthy attachment. In this case, obsession could become toxic on both sides. For example, the other person might become so obsessed with you that they start neglecting other aspects of their life or become overly clingy, which can create an unbalanced, draining dynamic.
To avoid this, always be mindful of the balance of energy between you and the other person. Your goal is to create a magnetic, positive attraction, not to tie someone’s happiness to you. Magic should always be used to encourage positive, healthy connections—not to create dependency.
3. Overdoing the Spell
Another way an obsession love spell could backfire is if you overdo it—performing it too many times or becoming too obsessed with the outcome. If you are constantly doing the spell or obsessing over the results, the energy you put out could become erratic and unfocused. This can confuse or weaken the spell’s effect. It’s important to set your intention clearly at the start, and then trust the process. Overdoing the spell might not only waste energy but could also make you anxious, which would disrupt the flow of positive energy.
After you have performed the spell, it’s best to let go of any attachment to the outcome. Let the universe do its part and allow the person to come to you naturally. If you’re constantly worried or checking for signs, it could actually block the spell’s effectiveness.
How to Avoid a Backfire
- Focus on Attraction, Not Control: Always remember that love spells should enhance a connection, not force it. The goal is to attract the person’s attention and affection, not make them obsess or become obsessed with you in a way that could be harmful or one-sided.
- Don’t Repeat the Spell Excessively: Once you’ve cast your spell, give it time to work. Recasting or performing the spell too many times can lead to overpowering energy, and might result in negative side effects. Trust the process.
- Check Your Intentions: Make sure your intentions are rooted in respect and love. If your goal is to build a meaningful, healthy connection, you’re on the right path.
- Let Go of Attachment to the Outcome: Once you have cast your spell, release the need for immediate results. Obsessing over the outcome will only create anxiety, and that can interfere with the energy flow. Let the universe do its work.
Final Thoughts
An Obsession Love Spell can be incredibly powerful, but it’s essential to cast it with a pure heart, clear intentions, and respect for both yourself and the person you’re focusing on. If you use the spell with the mindset of enhancing attraction and connection, you’ll see much better results. However, always remember to be mindful of the balance of energy and the importance of free will. Magic is about aligning with natural forces, not trying to control them.
If you ever feel uncertain or uneasy about a spell, it’s a good idea to stop and reconsider your intentions. If you need a professional spell caster, I’m here to perform any spell you may need without worrying about any negative consequences.
