Love Spells: Are you tired of being single while everyone around you finds love? Do you want your ex back, but don’t know how to make them see what they lost?
Have you tried everything to get someone’s attention, but nothing works?
Love spells give you the power to attract romance, make someone fall for you, bring back a lost lover, or strengthen your current relationship. These spells work by directing focused energy toward your romantic desires and making them real.
Today, I’m sharing everything you need to know about love spells – what they are, who should cast them, when to use them, different types, how to cast each one, and what happens after.
By the end of this guide, you’ll know exactly how to use magic to transform your love life.
What Are Love Spells?
Love spells are rituals that use candles, herbs, words, and other magical tools to influence romantic feelings and situations. These spells work by sending energy toward a specific person to make them think about you, feel attracted to you, or fall in love with you.
Some love spells target specific people by name or photo. Others attract your ideal partner without naming anyone particular. The spell creates energetic shifts that change how someone sees you, what they feel about you, and whether they want to be with you.
Who Should Cast Love Spells?
Anyone can cast love spells. You don’t need special powers or years of training. If you want love in your life and you’re willing to put in the effort, love magic can work for you.
Love spells work best for:
- Single people who want to attract a romantic partner
- People in love with someone who doesn’t notice them
- Anyone trying to get an ex-lover back
- Couples who want to strengthen their relationship
- People stuck in the friend zone who want more
- Anyone facing romantic competition from others
- People who want someone to commit or propose marriage
You should be at least 18 years old before casting love spells. These spells work best with adult romantic and sexual energy that’s not appropriate for children or teenagers.
When to Cast Love Spells
The best time to cast love spells is during the waxing moon or full moon. The waxing moon makes feelings grow stronger as the moon grows bigger. The full moon gives maximum power for fast results.
Friday is the most powerful day for love magic because Venus, the planet of love, rules Friday. Cast your love spells on Friday evening during the waxing or full moon for the strongest effect.
You can also cast love spells:
- When you first meet someone you’re attracted to
- After a breakup when you want your ex back
- When someone you like is dating someone else
- Before important romantic events like first dates
- When your relationship feels cold or distant
- Whenever you feel lonely and ready for love
Types of Love Spells and How to Cast Each
These are some of the types of love spells and how to cast each as a beginner at home.
Attraction Spells
Attraction spells make you magnetic to potential romantic partners. These spells don’t target anyone specific but make you noticeable and desirable to people you encounter.
How to Cast an Attraction Spell:
Light a pink candle on Friday evening. Write on paper: “I attract love easily. Romantic partners are drawn to me. I am irresistible and desired.”
Hold rose quartz crystal in your left hand. Close your eyes and visualize yourself surrounded by pink glowing light. See people noticing you, smiling at you, feeling attracted to you.
Speak aloud: “Love comes to me naturally and fast. I am magnetic. Romance finds me wherever I go.”
Let the candle burn for one hour, then blow it out. Repeat this ritual every Friday for four weeks. Carry the rose quartz with you daily.
Honey Jar Love Spells
Honey jar love spells sweeten someone’s feelings toward you. The person starts thinking kind thoughts about you, feeling drawn to you, and wanting to spend time with you.
How to Cast a Honey Jar Spell:
Get a small jar with a lid, honey, red or pink candle, paper, red pen, and rose petals.
Write the target person’s full name on paper nine times without lifting your pen. Turn the paper and write your name crossing over theirs nine times. This creates a name grid.
Place rose petals in the bottom of the jar. Add the name paper on top of the petals. Fill the jar with honey until the paper is completely covered. As you pour honey, say: “As this honey is sweet, so [name]’s feelings for me become sweet. [Name] thinks of me with kindness, desire, and love.”
Seal the jar tightly. Place the pink or red candle on top of the lid. Light it and let it burn completely down. The wax will seal the jar.
Shake the jar once per week while repeating: “[Name] loves me, [Name] wants me, [Name] thinks of me constantly.”
Burn a new candle on top of the jar every Friday to keep the spell active.
Candle Love Spells
Candle spells use fire to ignite passion and create romantic feelings. These work quickly and are perfect for beginners.
How to Cast a Candle Love Spell:
Get two candles – one to represent you, one to represent the target person. Use pink candles for gentle love or red candles for passionate love.
Carve your name into one candle and the target’s name into the other. Anoint both candles with rose oil or olive oil by rubbing from bottom to top.
Place the candles on a fireproof surface about 12 inches apart. Light both candles and say: “As these flames burn bright, [name] and I unite. Love grows between us strong, together is where we belong.”
Each night, move the candles one inch closer together. When the candles finally touch after 12 days, let them burn down completely together. This represents you and the person coming together romantically.
Mirror Love Spells
Mirror love spells make someone think about you every time they see their own reflection. They cannot look at themselves without thinking of you.
How to Cast a Mirror Love Spell:
Get a small handheld mirror, two photos (one of you, one of the target), red candle, honey, and red thread.
Spread honey on the back of the mirror. Place your photo face-down on the honey. Place the target’s photo face-down on top of yours so both photos stick to the honey.
Wrap the mirror with red thread, going around it nine times. Tie nine knots. Each time you tie a knot, say: “[Name] sees me in every reflection. [Name] thinks of me constantly. I am in [name]’s mind always.”
Light the red candle and drip wax all over the wrapped mirror to seal it. Let the candle burn down completely.
Keep the sealed mirror in a dark, safe place. The spell works as long as the mirror stays intact.
Bring Back Ex-Lover Spells
These spells make an ex remember the good times you shared and want to get back together. They work by erasing bad memories and highlighting happy ones.
How to Cast a Return Lover Spell:
Get a photo of you and your ex together from when you were happy. If you don’t have one, tape two separate photos side by side.
Write on pink paper: “[Ex’s name] remembers our love. [Ex’s name] misses me. [Ex’s name] wants me back. We reunite and our relationship is even better than before.”
Place the photo and paper in a jar. Add rose petals for love, lavender for peace, and sugar for sweetness. Fill the jar with honey.
Seal the jar and shake it while saying: “[Ex’s name] cannot stop thinking about me. The love we shared returns stronger. [Ex’s name] reaches out to reconnect.”
Place the jar under your bed or pillow. Your ex will start dreaming about you and feeling drawn to contact you within two to four weeks.
Commitment and Marriage Spells
These commitment spells make someone want to commit to you exclusively or propose marriage. They work by making the person see a future with you.
How to Cast a Commitment Spell:
On a Friday during the full moon, light a white candle. White represents commitment and marriage.
Write on paper: “[Name] commits to me completely. [Name] sees a future with me. [Name] wants to marry me. We build a life together.”
Place a piece of your hair and a piece of the target’s hair (if you have it) on the paper. Fold the paper toward you three times. Wrap it with white ribbon.
Hold the wrapped paper between your palms and visualize the two of you getting engaged or married. See the proposal happening. Feel the emotions of that moment.
Place the paper under a white candle and let the candle burn completely. Keep the paper in a safe place. Your partner will start thinking about commitment and marriage within one to three months.
Obsession Spells
Obsession spells make someone think about you constantly and intensely. They cannot get you out of their mind and feel compelled to contact you.
How to Cast an Obsession Spell:
Get a red candle, photo of the target, cinnamon, damiana herb (optional), and red thread.
Write the target’s name on paper 13 times. The number 13 creates obsessive energy.
Sprinkle cinnamon heavily on the paper. Cinnamon makes thoughts of you burn in their mind. If using damiana, add a pinch for sexual obsession.
Place the target’s photo on top of the name paper. Fold everything together and wrap tightly with red thread, making 13 wraps and 13 knots.
Light the red candle. Hold the wrapped bundle over the flame (not too close) and say: “[Name] thinks of me every moment. [Name] is obsessed with me. I consume [name]’s thoughts day and night. [Name] must have me.”
Let the candle burn down completely. Keep the bundle wrapped and hidden. The person will become intensely focused on you within one week.
Lust and Passion Spells
These spells create physical desire and sexual attraction. They make someone want you physically and think about you in sexual ways.
How to Cast a Lust Spell:
Get a red candle, photo of the target, cinnamon, ginger, and red pepper flakes.
On the back of the photo, write: “[Name] desires my body. [Name] thinks of me sexually. [Name] craves physical intimacy with me.”
Sprinkle cinnamon, ginger, and a tiny pinch of red pepper on the photo. These spices heat up sexual feelings.
Fold the photo toward you three times. Place it under a red candle and light the candle.
As the candle burns, visualize the person touching you, kissing you, and wanting you sexually. See their desire in their eyes. Feel the heat between you.
Let the candle burn for one hour each night for three nights. By the third night, the person will start showing obvious physical attraction to you.
Reconciliation Spells
Reconciliation spells heal relationship problems and bring peace after fighting. They work by removing anger and restoring love.
How to Cast a Reconciliation Spell:
Get a pink candle, lavender, rose petals, sugar, and paper.
Write both names on paper with a heart around them. Below the names write: “All anger between [name] and [name] dissolves. Peace returns. Love is restored. We forgive and move forward together.”
Mix lavender, rose petals, and sugar in a small bowl. Lavender brings peace, roses bring love, sugar sweetens everything.
Sprinkle the mixture in a circle around the pink candle. Place the name paper under the candle.
Light the candle and say: “Fighting ends. Peace begins. Our love is stronger than our anger. [Name] and I reconcile with open hearts.”
Let the candle burn completely. You and your partner will feel calmer toward each other and ready to make peace within days.
How Long Do Love Spells Take to Work?
Love spells don’t work instantly like in movies. They need time to shift energy and create changes in the physical world.
Timeline for different love spells:
- Attraction spells: 1 to 2 weeks before you notice people showing interest
- Honey jar spells: 2 to 4 weeks for the person’s feelings to sweeten
- Candle spells: Results appear by the time the candle finishes burning (usually 1 to 2 weeks)
- Mirror spells: 3 to 7 days for the person to start thinking about you constantly
- Ex-lover return spells: 2 to 8 weeks depending on how long you’ve been apart
- Commitment spells: 1 to 3 months for proposals or serious commitment decisions
- Obsession spells: 1 to 2 weeks for intense focus to develop
- Lust spells: 3 to 7 days for sexual desire to appear
The timeline depends on several factors. Spells work faster when the person already knows you or has some positive feelings. They work slower when the person doesn’t know you exist or actively dislikes you.
Using personal concerns like hair or nail clippings speeds up results. Casting during the full moon gives faster results than casting during the new moon. Stronger emotions during casting create faster manifestation.
Most people notice first signs within two weeks – the person texting more, showing up where you are, or acting differently around you. Full results take four to eight weeks as the spell builds power over time.
Can Love Spells Backfire?
Yes, love spells can backfire if you cast them wrong or use them on the wrong person. Here’s what can go wrong:
The person becomes obsessed in unhealthy ways. Obsession spells that are too strong create stalking behavior, possessiveness, or jealousy that make the relationship toxic instead of loving.
You get exactly what you asked for and hate it. Be careful what you wish for. If you cast a spell to make someone love you without thinking about whether you actually like them as a person, you might end up in a relationship with someone incompatible.
The spell rebounds on you. If the target person has spiritual protection or someone else is doing magic to protect them, your spell bounces back and you might fall obsessively in love with them while they remain uninterested.
You attract the wrong person. Vague attraction spells sometimes bring romantic attention from people you don’t want. Be specific about the qualities you desire.
The relationship feels fake or forced. Heavily manipulative love spells can create relationships that feel artificial because the person’s feelings aren’t genuine – they’re magically induced.
You face consequences for manipulation. Some practitioners believe manipulating someone’s feelings creates karma that comes back to you. You might face relationship problems in the future as payback.
To prevent backfire:
- Be specific about what you want
- Don’t make spells too intense or controlling
- Consider whether you actually want this person or just the idea of them
- Start with gentle attraction before moving to stronger methods
- Be prepared to live with the relationship you create
Can Love Spells Be Broken?
Yes, love spells can be broken. Nothing in magic is permanent if you know how to undo it.
How to break a love spell you cast:
If you cast a love spell and want to end it, you need to dismantle the physical spell components and release the energy.
For honey jar spells, remove the jar from wherever you keep it. Let it thaw if it was frozen. Open it and pour the contents down the drain or into running water like a river. Throw away or burn the name papers. Wash the jar thoroughly before using it for anything else.
For candle spells, stop burning candles and throw away any remaining wax. If you carved names into candles, dispose of those candles completely.
For mirror spells, unwrap the mirror and separate the photos. Cleanse the mirror by washing it with salt water. Burn or bury the photos away from your home.
After dismantling the spell, say out loud: “This spell is ended. The connection is released. [Name] is free from my magic. What was bound is now undone.”
The person’s feelings will gradually return to what they were before you cast the spell. This usually takes one to two weeks.
How to break someone else’s love spell on you:
If someone cast a love spell on you and you want it broken, you need to cleanse yourself and cut the magical ties.
Take an uncrossing bath with salt, hyssop, and rue. Fill your tub with warm water and add two cups of salt and the herbs. Soak for at least 20 minutes while visualizing any magical influence washing off your body and going down the drain.
Carry black tourmaline crystal with you. This stone absorbs and blocks magical attacks including love spells.
Burn a black candle with your name carved into it. As it burns, say: “All spells cast on me are broken. All magical influence over my heart is destroyed. I am free from manipulation. My feelings are my own.”
Cut energetic cords by visualizing silver threads connecting you to the person who cast the spell. See yourself cutting those threads with scissors. Watch them dissolve.
After breaking a love spell cast on you, you’ll notice your feelings toward the person change. If you suddenly felt obsessed with someone for no reason, that obsession will fade. Your natural feelings return within one to two weeks.
What to Do After Love Spells Are Cast
Casting the spell is only the beginning. What you do after determines whether the spell actually works.
Stop obsessing about results. The biggest mistake people make is constantly checking their phone, stalking social media, or watching desperately for signs the spell worked. This desperate energy actually blocks the spell from manifesting. Cast your spell, then go live your life and trust it’s working.
Maintain the spell regularly. Most love spells need ongoing work. If you created a honey jar, shake it weekly and burn candles on it every Friday. If you started a candle spell, continue the ritual until all candles are burned. Don’t cast once and forget about it.
Take physical action. Magic opens doors but you must walk through them. If you cast a spell to attract someone, actually go places where you might meet them. If you did a spell on someone specific, create opportunities to see them in person. The universe works through natural events, so give it pathways to manifest your spell.
Watch for signs the spell is working. Notice when the person starts texting you more, showing up where you are, acting different around you, or mentioning you to mutual friends. These signs mean your spell activated successfully.
Be patient but persistent. If you see no results after four weeks, recast the spell with stronger methods. Add personal concerns like hair or photos. Use more powerful ingredients like cinnamon or damiana. Cast during the full moon. Layer multiple spell types on the same person.
Prepare for success. If you cast a spell to attract love, make sure you’re actually ready for a relationship. Work on yourself, have interesting things to talk about, and be the kind of person someone would want to date. Magic brings opportunities but you must be ready to receive them.
Keep the spell secret. Don’t tell the target person you cast a spell on them. Don’t post about it on social media. Don’t tell friends who might gossip. Other people’s skepticism and judgment can interfere with your magic. Work in silence and let your results speak for themselves.
Know when to move on. If you’ve cast multiple spells over three months with no results at all, this person might not be right for you. Sometimes the universe blocks things that aren’t in your best interest. Be willing to redirect your energy toward attracting someone better suited to you.
Final thought
Love spells work when you combine magical effort with physical action, maintain the spell over time, and stay confident that your desire is manifesting.
Cast your spell properly, then release desperate attachment to how and when it happens. Results come most easily when you trust the magic and remain open to receiving love.
